Sounds like it went about as well as expected. You got out what you wanted to say, she heard it, and I think you should feel good about it. Goal accomplished, right?
Funny about the cat. And Matt's comment made me laugh too.
NDDT, I think now is the time for you to just keep giving her timne and space, and focus on making you and your D as happy as you can. Try to focus exclusively on that, and GALing, and don't think about your W for a while. Whenever you have contact (eg, kid exchange), just be the happiest, most upbeat and positive guy you can. That's it (until the money talk).
Ok, check you later, Nomo
PS - if you need a get away, come on down to Texas for a bit. I will show you a good time.
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link