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he told me that I deserve better

At least he is able to see this... My W gave me a similar line saying that I deserve someone who will love and adore me for me. She would never use the word that I need someone better, just someone other then her.

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One of his famous lines was "I don't have to change for anyone".

Well, I guess he won't change then. I still have a hard time understanding why he would walk away from such a wonderful woman.

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Hopefully, you and I will both have fun on our mini-vacations.

I will and I am sure that you will to. If you find yourself getting bored let me know I can offer some suggestions.

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let's hope H doesn't find out...he'll be furious.

I would not worry to much about his feelings anymore....he does not deserve your consideration at this point.