Wow. It is so hard not to give in to the temptation to express yourself completely, especially when there is even a perceived slight, intended or otherwise. I know that I still occasionally can't hold my tongue and make W feel squeezed. For me, after being very uncommunicative and unable to express feelings, to have restraint can feel like a retreat into my cave.

I haven't caught up on all of the previous thread, but plan on doing so.

Me 40
W 38
S 4
M 7.75
ILYBNILWY 6/8/07
"do not want to be your W" 6/16/07
DB'ing 6/30/07

1st M 6 yrs; she was my first WAW

first thread [url=link] http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1149309&page=5#Post1149309 [/url]