Am I seperated? Looking for support/advice...

[whatsyourpoint]

I think your concern is well placed. You want to know. You don't want to be indifferent. You want to show you care. You want your faith in this to be reassured by knowing he is going to do his part in fixing this. The likely outcome will be to create pressure on him when he still largely feels you've got more work to do. Maybe you should just wait until he brings up your counseling again. At least then you know that the concept of counseling is something he asked about.