As far as your sons are concerned....listen. It's up to their dad to either fix or not fix his R with them. You can't, don't try. DO listen if your boys want to talk. Just relecting back what they say (without judgement) will help them sort out how they feel. Remember, you don't have to express how you feel about H to them. That might make them feel like they have to choose sides and oh, the guilt and confussion that can bring up in them. Perhaphs a C would help them, but at their ages i don't know if that's something they'd want to persue.
Glad the call went well for you. ASny insights you'd like to share?
