I wanted to echo what others have said, don't think there was any backsliding at all. D3 is well... 3. She's going to get hurt sometimes. Unless someone's obviously neglectful or intentionally hurting her, it is ridiculous to get into big long arguments over whose "fault" it was. If she falls and gets a bruise at your house or at W's, she falls and gets a bruise... heck even if she breaks a bone... yeah it sucks, but stuff happens!!
I think this has been said but I wanted to emphasize it a bit - pissed W is NOT the same thing as a backslide, by a longshot. In fact a lot of times she's going to be pissed if you DON'T backslide, because it keeps her confused and doubting her decision. It's how you handle her pissiness, and you're doing well with that.
I actually disagreed a bit with the others on the charm thing, I don't think you should be apologizing soooo much when you really didn't do anything wrong. I don't think it's too bad so still worth a try, but please don't add even more apologies to it. You went off the info you had at the time, the rest of that craziness is your W's issue.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
