It seems as though H has been doing some thinking regards to my last email about how if he still wishes to come back home that it is fine w/ me now.
The last few times he's come over he was very thinkative in his own little world. Last night after we all ate dinner I could tell he wanted to talk but it was getting late(his OW's clock time) & the girls were still not bathed. As he was leaving he said"dont be surprised if I move back soon" D6 was in the LR w/ me watching tv & he looked at her like we really cant get into a R talk right now,but still wanted me to know. I replied you know I said you can. H- yeah but its not that she(OW) is just(making hand signals of i dont know? when someone is getting on your nerves ? crazy?) and w/ a look of disgust. It was ther I noticed just how badly/depressed let himself go? no hair cut in a while? he looked. I did not ask any questions and jsut gave him a look of concerned.
Question- If he does move back say this weekend how to I act? Do I continue to act as if? Do I wait until he tells me what went wrong w/ OW? AND the all time BIGGY- Do I let him sleep in my same bed right away??
Please let me know...someone who has been thru this???
