Wow Larry... I'm so sorry. They really do just lose all respect, decency sometimes. (even in piecing.. you saw the thing about H texting OW with me sitting in the same room right??).

You are absolutely right that it's out of your control, so good job just letting go. I think that's right too, to put aside the reconciliation goal for now. You can always keep that little thread of hope somewhere deep in your heart, but make her EARN you back if it comes to that... she has to deserve you.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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