NikkiB #18

[NikB]

Thanks everyone!

Superdad, jak, SD, ST -
Thanks so much for the reminder. That's a very good point. After I went to bed last night it actually jumped out in my head that I had typed and thought "wanted" (funny SuperDad that you picked up on exactly the same thing). I wondered who'd be the first to call me on it. I'm kinda glad that "slip" happened because it led to all this great advice though.

SD - I especially like the suggestion to just jump right into excited about the concert and not talk about the MC unless he decides to. I set that up a bit yesterday unintentionally. H asked how my session was and I just replied with "It was good, thanks for asking." I would've shared more if he asked, but he didn't and I was fine with him not asking. Might be totally different with his, of course, but I think that might have showed I don't expect us to have a big long R/M talk after.

ST
Yeah, agree that 2 weeks would be way too long. The MC was also concerned he might take it badly that I had seen her first and she'd "side" with me before hearing the whole story, so she was hoping to see him as quickly as possible. Glad it worked out that he could get in today.

H just left for his session and I'm going out to look for an outfit to wear tonight. I picked one out yesterday and I loved it at the store but got home, tried it on again at home, and I didn't like it AT ALL. I've done that where I was "so-so" on something and didn't like it after I got home but never had something go from "love this!" to "hate this!" so quick. Oh well... gives me an excuse to get out and stay busy I guess. So I'll do that, then pack and get ready to go. Packing alone should get my PMA sky high for when H gets home.

I WILL have fun, I am happy, thrilled that H and I are finally going to a concert together, totally excited to be near the water later (the venue overlooks a lake), and plan to FULLY enjoy the romantic B&B (with the jacuzzi tub for two....). No matter what.

I probably won't be able to post again today, but will post at least a brief update tomorrow. thanks for all the advice and good luck wishes.

Hope everyone has a great Friday and weekend!!