Oh my goodness. I still have never spent the night away from my kids. I will need your support if that ever hapens and I guess that is just around the corner if this MLC/ affair continue.
HUGE QUESTION: My H is still pretty homeless and the kids and I are going on vacation. What type of boundaries do I put on my home which use dto be our home? I am so lost. I do not want a cheating lying husband who may be on drugs to enter my house when I am not here. I also do not want to send the message that this is no longer his home. I do not expect a miracle, but actually thought if I ordered digital cable and clean out the garage he would see this as a more inviting home to come back to. Crazy? I have no idea if he is on drugs or serious about this OW.. I assume the worst but who knows? I do not want him using my bed or home to meet with anyone.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."