WAW1978's adventures in DB'ing

[waw1978]

Here are some of the important details:

H & I both work full time, during the day. This has been for the last two years. D attends a full time pre-school program M-F.

First two years of her life I worked part-time evenings and cared for her all day so she would not have to attend daycare. I was the primary caregiver.

For the last two years she has attended full time daycare/pre-school while H & I worked. I attended school 2 times per week during this time. Caregiving duties were shared by H & I.

I used to drop her off daily and H would pick her up until about 2 months ago when H's hours changed. He is working later in the day so he drops her off at school and my Mom picks her up every day since both H & I work until 5PM and cannot make it to the daycare ctr in time.

The atty did know I was ultimately trying to work on our M but he was giving me the standard advice it seems.

I guess I am at an impass...stay in house and continue to feel angry and frustrated with H and never recover the M anyway or leave to try and resolve these feelings and possibly lose my D if things don't work out.

Thank you for weighing in. I feel like I don't have any options right now. The whole visitation/custody issue is weighing on me. Ever since last week when I got the vile email detailing the 3 days he thinks I should have with D its all I think about. I keep thinking that I have to take drastic measures to head off impending disaster. But taking those measures will surely end my M...