Thanks morgan. My H says the same thing about having on one else to talk to although sometimes he does add me in there as one of two people...yuck. I am in such a funk today I wish I was already away. I know exactly what you were trying to say and I an;t tell you how much I appreciate the support. I will probably me out of the loop while I am gone however will be thinking of all of you and praying we all have the strength to find what we need.