She did okay according to H. He said she acted fine after about 5 or 10 min.
we had a talk this morning on the phone about it. H is planning to pick d up at 2:00 tomorrow afternoon for the weekend. I know she is going to throw another fit, but I am going to go along with it and support him. Only b/c she was fine yesterday after her major meltdown, but I did tell H that I didn't want him to make her sleep over if she was upset. I'm not sure if he what he will do though. Once she is with him he told me he doesn't want to give in to her.
I hate all of this. He seems so fine about all of this. So confident with his new life and his decision to start over. I can tell when he talks to me that he has no respect for me as a parent. He makes his little remarks during our conversation and also says things to his family a lot that gets back to me.
What about him? What kind of parent is he? He teaches the kids that you should quit with your M, cheat on your partner, lie about things, live with another woman while still legally M, start your life over before you have even gotten a D, manipulate your own children into believing they shouldn't have a R with their own stepsiblings???
What about all of that??? I plan to talk to him about this sometime very soon. I never denied that I should be more firm with my kids and not be so "wish washy" when it comes to disipline, but what about teaching our kids morals and integrity? What about the pressure he is putting on d7 in regards to how her siblings all feel about our family breaking up? Our kids didn't have a choice in the matter at all, they were just told one day that our family was no more and they were to just accept it. They have feelings too and they should be recoginized.
I am so sick of him pointing the finger at me all the time.
When I do talk with him I plan to remain strong and calm. I will not raise my voice. I will not take the bait. But I feel it needs to be said.
