I think you should tell H that the kids had asked you about the D and that you told them the truth. He can't expect you to lie to them
Half, He SHOULDN'T expect me to lie. I am not going to say anything to him.
That was my point, Bam. What you did was right in answering their question truthfully. I just think that honesty is the best approach in case he does finds out you had to tell them. If you tell him the situation first with the kids asking, it should be clear that you did what you had to do.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.