CHOOSE to have a good time, even if H is mopey. Choose happiness, choose fun, choose levity. H's feelings are HIS. You can be understanding, validating and supportive without taking those feelings on.

If H chooses to have a cruddy time, that's his business!

Have fun!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!