MK, its so frustrating. the first thing is scary as hell, and wtf is wrong with him???? that would be a huge problem for me.

number 2, go, have fun! he's bummed because he's going to miss out on the fun...he doesn't remember that hey, you guys have fun, and hey, you aren't going to sit and wallow thru his MLC. I get sooo frustrated by the same things...I am doing EVERYTHING here to save this marriage, if its at all possible. he's doing everything to destroy it. so where does he get off being miserable about anything???

number 3, I think your mom is right. and especially when it comes to the kids, you have to be the bigger person. but feel free to vent here


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher