Kim, It sounds like your H is showing commitment to the M. I would think her antics are a desperate attempt to reconnect with your H. It's a sign of a dead or dying R.
You sound disappointed about the quality of your R. How are you doing as far as the quality of your own life? I'm learning that even though a R is in Piecing, GAL efforts must continue or we'll return to old ways of relating to our spouses. We have to be stronger, happier, more comfortable with power, less dependent on our spouses, and continue to give them the space to work thru their own issues.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
