Hairy, I'll join in the "GO!" camp. I see it as a control issue with her and you being in the "nice guy" camp. I did read the book and found I was not in that camp as I thought I might be. So start spreading those wings and go!
Scott -who is SF nerding all weekend at an SF Con which the spouse is not attending with him.
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"
