Waltzing again -one decision at a time!

[NNP1965]

Only reason H hasn't filed is because of the money. He doesn't want to spend a lot of money on the D. He hopes we can reach an agreement ourselves and then just have one lawyer. As I said before my lawyer said we could do it that way......as long as the one lawyer is MINE!

Oh Matilda I read something on another thread last night and thought of your sitch.

This was posted on this
thread

I did tell him that these were his feelings and actions so he would need to decide what he wanted to do. Right or wrong?

You did fine. Now if he does bring up divorce...he may ask you what to do. Tell him to ask a lawyer...that you will not help him divorce you IN ANY WAY. If he wants it he MUST do 100% of the work to get it.
And for your part, you will do the work to not get it--you don't have to tell him that though.

Sure he wants this to be friendly and resolved between the tywo of you. Tell him...that's not how these things work. ALways refer him to his lawyer for legal questions or when he wants help such as filling out divorce paperwork.

HUGS,
RCR