This sounds like a million conversations I have had with my H. In fact I could have almost written that. I can not even begin to tell you what you should do because if you look at any of my sitch you will see that I am lost. I can tell you though to hang in there. Many things get said in these situations that are not meant. Stay strong. Your heart is in the write place. Take a deep breath and be good to yourself.
M 32 H 39 SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4 E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06 On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again. On 08/11/07 Walked out again.
People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"