You are the one primarily with your kids, if you felt it was easier for them to hear it from you first.....FINE! It's ok Bam...don't second guess it. It happened.
He will get the chance tonight to explain whats going on. I hope your son isn't too traumatized about his find.
I'm glad you followed your instinct and told them first. Don't think about it anylonger or worry if you did the right thing. You did. Please don't allow any spewage from your stbx on what happened. You did what you thought was right! Good for you!
Stand tall sweetie!
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!