I was starting to think that she had her own place & was finding
things a little tuff, thats why I was going forward with the sale of the house. But to be living with OM in his home is another matter. My concern has to be for my own future & not hers & that really does pain me to say that.

Yes it's true about 5 years of seperation...These are the options for divorce un the UK..

* Adultery (she wants me to file for this)

* Unreasonable behaviour (She could file for this but non would
be true, her lawer as advised her on this)

* You have been separated for two years or more and both of you
agree a divorce.

* You have been 'deserted' for 2 years (this is very complex and
best not used if you have any
other ground)

* You have been separated for 5 years or more.. The LBS then has
no say at all.

So it could be a long wait.

Thanks Strange


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