LOL IK,
Please stop by next time you're in the area to see your sister \:\)

No No Nomo, I know him & he's not an IT guy, just one who's never been married & doesn't know what to expect \:o (kinda like me, no?)

Still having refrigerator issues. Should have just bought a new one & not ruined all that food. Should have just D'ed the thing ;\)

I'm kind of looking forward to having a couple of weeks of freedom from dealing with H up close. Might be good to get a little distance for both of us.

Yesterday I went to my neighbors to watch their kids for a while & noticed a list of things to do to keep your marriage strong & bullet points for good communication. It was hand writen & posted on the frig (mine is bare, maybe that's the problem), & had things like "Go out at least once a week alone w/out kids, etc. They are so good about doing that...something to keep in mind in my next R, with or w/out H.

To tell the truth, I knew this stuff, just didn't really think it was that important. Changed my mind on that stuff in a big way!

Sunny

Last edited by warm&sunny; 08/03/07 12:21 PM.

M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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