Newbie ? How public was your spouse's affair?

[mkultra]

My H has no idea he even cheated! We were discussing a coworker who threw out her cheating boyfriend. I said how shocking it was for the boyfriend to sleep with his best friend's wife and his girlfriend's coworker. My H said,"I told her dad she was too good for him anyway." My H actiually thinks he is just a single man with a new girlfriend and for me to get over it. I am just an old friend who he has to deal with because he wants to see his kids every now and then. Now that I have written it down, the picture gets clearer. He really is over me, has been for a while (9years-the number grows each week!) and he really wants me to move on. I am just a burden or a martyr in his eyes. The OW is freedom and hope of a new and better life. I kniw she will dump him soon , but c'mon then he is just sloppy seconds!