My mom told me just to live like a single mom and not to involve him at all. I think she is right. If he were here things would be different but he is homeless or skanking. Either way we are not treuly coparenting yet. Has anyone worked out a good way of dealing with the coparenting?
789-It sounds like your S and my D are really having a hard time of this.

My D wears here dad's t shirts every night to bed. My bro thought it was charming but I saw it as a sign of separation anxiety. I asked the night doctor if her symptoms could have been brought on by stress or anxiety. She may need therapy too. My H's denial exascerbates our communication. So, I will not involve him in our problems and let him sleep in his car or in LaLa Land.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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