Okay. So, we now know 'our' problem is a medical one - physical symptoms at first which I guess then led to the psychological barriers going up. Then a total lack of communication, which led to complete downward spiral within our marriage. And the rest is (now) history.
But... she's recently been to the doc's and is now awaiting results. Unfortunately, it could be quite serious (she works in a related medical field, so she knows her stuff). But then, if it was that serious, she'd more than likely have had her results by now. Time will tell, I guess.
However, in the meantime, I'm just getting more and more horny. Jeez. Two years is a helluva long time. However, part of my problem is that while I know actual sex is out of the question just now, I'm expecting her to come up with other ways of dealing with my... umm... 'situation'.
But it's just not happening.
I guess that there are more important things on her mind, although she has pretty much said that normal service will resume once things are sorted out. (Yay!) Dunno how long that will take, though.
So... I can't go throwing any more boundaries around right now, eh. Seems a bit selfish, eh?
