Atlas, just getting caught up in your sitch. This seems to be a natural progression for a WAS. Remember breath deep and continue to bite your tongue when the anger presents itself. I have gotten the whole scared thing, but w does not want to committ to anything other than me not leaving right now. You seem to be doing great, it will be much harder through this process and some of the doubt will certainly come from you. You have been in panic mode on how to get your w to committ, so your range of emotions will be going through the roof when things don't seem to be going the way you want. Just remember, keep your changes perminant and don't overanalyze w decisions. Keep DB'ing. As far as the family stuff, you must show them that you have changed, etc. They want what is best for W and she propably has told them that you are not, so her change of heart puts you both in a heck of a sitch. Keep working at it, beware the pitfalls, and stay strong!
