Good to hear some details of your story. Has there been an OW? Anyway, congrats on starting piecing the M together. Sounds like H still needs a lot of attitude adjustment though. Do you have a thread link?
Re the passion thing, that isn't the issue here. What she really craves like an addict is the EMOTIONAL high from the A. I think the sex thing with her is just a nice addition.
Re finances, we both do pretty well. We still have to work it out though. Gonna be fun.
So far, I have stayed strong, even with today's hurt. I have channeled the hate energy into the detachment effort: repeating things over and over like: "I don't want to be married to this woman anymore", and "He can have her."
It's been four weeks since the bomb. At first, I hated the OM. Now, I'm starting to feel sorry for him. He doesn't know what he's gotten himself into.
Larry
P.S. I love the Eliot quote. I don't want to get political, but it could apply to certain public figures...
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread
