I hate to lose her as my MIL. She has been there for me throughout all of this...she's the main reason that I held on so long.
Sure she won't be your MIL anymore, but you do not have to lose the R you have with her. It might be a little strange for a new man in your life but if he loves you he will understand your close tie with her. You have been through hell and she was there for you...heck I would give her a hug and say thanks for loving you and supporting you.
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she is standing behind her morals and will not accept her son's immoral behavior...it is wrong, she always says...I just can't be a part of this.
Good for her!
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he might as well throw a temper tantrum. He can't have a mistress and a wife...it's just not fair.
I actually was picturing him throwing a temper tantrum like my D5 sometimes does when she doesn't get her way. Not a pretty picture for a grown man.
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Are you starting to see why he is miserable?
By his own doing, he is losing you. Who wouldn't be miserable?
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Never...then you might turn into the jackass that he is.
Awww, come on. Just ask. He has become such a smooth operator. I could definitly learn a thing or two from him.
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I was such a catch that he snagged me when I was 16 and never let go. OW is 29 and never been married...seems a little too ironic don't you think?
Again not to bash your H, but you setled for him. He did not snag you. He is lucky that you are a true lady with integrity and did not bolt yourself.
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I can promise you that I will find someone that truly loves me for me and I won't steal him from another woman.
Like I said earlier you are going to have to choose from millions of men out there that would love to call you their W. Just do not settle this time. Know what you want and how you deserve to be treated. You will find someone.
