I'm so glad things are going well. It seems she finally "figured it out" like I did. Thankfully, it's not too late. Just go w/ it and never forget the lessons learned during the hard times. Never forget that our marriages require EFFORT. That's something they forgot to tell us at the alter! I actually have a "to do" on my calendar at work that I never say is "done" so it follows me every day that says "never forget love." I also have a sticky on my computer that says NEVER FORGET. And one that says "compassion. support. respect."


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10