with no grounds it is five years? lol, oh god my vindictive side is coming out. i shouldn't encourage, but that is funny. in my state, if there are kids and the couple agrees, as fast as you can agree and get a judge's signature it is done.
sorry to hear about the house. i know the mum's couch bit, i've done enough to end up on that one and others. well, take some time and really think through your financial sitch on the house and do what is best for you, even if it helps or hurts her, you have to watch out for yourself.
