so whats the update? did you talk to w about the move and her list of items? i'll watch for the update.
you know, i was thinking about what you said earlier, about telling someone it's over, and i think i was answering nomo's question more then yours. if it is, should you tell someone to stop db'ing, like nomo asked, well no, that is their choice.
but, on the other hand, should you tell someone it is over. well that depends, i don't know if you can get enough of a sitch on the internet to know. but a close friend is going through a nasty divorce that his w intiated, but now she wants to reconcile. he doesn't. well he moved out of state and is back frequently, and another friend and i, happen to mix with a crowd that his soon to be ex mixes with. well we know things he doesn't, and while i don't feel comfortable with that. but, if he were to ever ask, he hasn't, i would tell him it is over.
so i guess i see it both ways, each sitch is diffrent.
