Hi All,

Just got back from a short trip w/kids, sister and mom. Went to visit mom's hometowns. We had a good time.

Tomorrow is the day we tell the kiddos. I'm nervous at how they will take it, but pretty sure they have a good idea. I have talked to all 3 of them the past 1 1/2 weeks off and on answering divorce questions. "Will you get remarried if you and daddy divorce?" "Will we get to see you as much?" etc etc.

I hate this for them. All I know is he is sinking more everyday and I need to save my kids and myself.

I hope with the finalization in October, more peace will come. I know it is going to be very hard. But, I feel like there is an end in sight for the "what ifs" in all of this.

Hope all is well tonight!


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs