Well, as surprising as it is to me, I've been rekindling things with my wife and her with me. Her desire and willingness to connect with me sexually has suddenly re-appeared, and so has her interest in being loving towards me, and me towards her. In other words, things have been going surprisingly well, and I've been taking a break from this forum.
I'm sure there is much room for growth and reconnection, and I intend to pursue more knowledge about this part of life. But, lately, I've just been living it without thinking too much about it. Plus, she's been wearing me out. (Seriously!) And, so has work, and the kids.
When I have settled on some theories about what has led to the positive change, I'll start a thread. Right now, I think it is partly a physical breakthrough for her, and partly that she finally let go of her resentment of me. This release of resentment probably was encouraged by her seeing the depth of my pain, and seeing how small a thread was holding me here -- in essence, some laying of our cards on the table, the misery was clear.
More later, someday, if anyone is interested.
I'm glad to hear things are still going well for you.
