Wow- and I thought I had made headway since initially he wanted NO boundaries whatsoever on sex.

He had already spelled out in no uncertain terms that he intended to date, *if* he wanted to. Dating was never, ever off the table. In fact, I thought it was good that I told him I wouldn't be part of a harem and that if he was going to date me, it would be ME only. And since b'call is attached to dating and courtship, I thought I HAD put boundaries on sex.

Oh dear- I gotta run out the door.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing