H is back on the kick of making d go with him for his visits.
The C told him today that if he and I talked and both decided we were ready to take this step then we should b/c no matter when it happens it will be traumatic for all of us.
So tonight I allowed H to take d kicking and screaming to the playground. I felt horrible, but felt it needed to be done so I supported H with his decision.
He now wants to take her for the weekend. I told him we needed to talk about it face to face. He said No-- we can talk ,but on the phone. I told H that I couldn't talk to him on the phone about it b/c d would hear me talking. It needed to be in person so we could be alone. I haven't heard back from him. I dont think he is going to agree to meet with me to discuss it. He's such a coward. Still can't face me and talk about anything...
I told him that we needed to be adults and communicate with one another about d. I told him that he didn't have to like me or love me anymore, but that I deserved to be respected b/c I am the mother of his child.
We will see if he heard a word I said.... I told him I wanted to talk to him before the weekend.
