Ok, that's it, I can't resist putting in my two-cents worth
HD - GO !!!!!!!!
(1) It's only $200 - it is not going to make the difference if your kids go to college or not and if it did, you have much bigger problems to think about
(2) I am sure, like many have said on here, that she spends a heck of a lot more on special diet foods, make-up, wine, clothes whatever to justify a hundred times over for you to take a lousy $200
(3) you were considerate when you thought about putting the trip to visit your friend AND the concert together, thus eliminating the need for hotel/food costs in addition to the ticket to see the band
(4) You have more than earned it after 8 months, it's not like it was the first little bit of extra you earned and why isn't she getting a second job to pay for her "special olives"?
(5) she is definitely freaking about losing control and nothing more
GO, HAVE A GOOD TIME AND DON'T YOU DARE THINK TWICE ABOUT IT
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)