well, ok, I guess you've said you wont be sexual relief for him after he's out the door.
But I think the rest of what I wrote, is accurate :-(
You've signed off on him dating other people, and you have nothing leading him to date you when he's moved out.

PS: in the off chance he does try to date you after moveout... I would highly recommend that you get 'a friend' to follow him and see what he does on his nights out, to verify that he isnt two-timing you. At this point, it's highly likely that this is all a setup to facilitate him dating someone he's already met.

Someone who is in the process of moving out, and gets you to agree to him dating, yet STILL hooks up with you for a booty call in the middle of all that.... is two-faced. it would not be sensible to trust him to tell you about some other woman.

Read all the posts in infidelity. How many unfaithful spouses actually admit it, unless they are faced with 100% proof they've been cheating? (and even then, how many of them deny it still?)


Last edited by Dom R; 08/03/07 01:33 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle