It's going to be a bumpy ride

[Dom R]

Clarification: You've just endorsed him dating, and making out, with anyone he wants to.
oh, and "strongly discouraged"??? oh please.

that means absolutely nothing. you've given him the green light to go hunting, and screw someone if he finds her attractive enough.
You've just nullified his whole "stay celibate for 2 months" promise. Now it's, "well, if he ends up screwing someone.. he has to tell you about it".

And if she's attractive enough to screw once, she'll be attractive enough to keep on at it for a good long time.

If you don't stop this right now, you've just changed your "try things for 2 months, and maybe get husband back after 2 months", to "well, MAYBE you'll get husband back, after he finds someone else to screw around with, then gets bored of her after 6 months and possibly considers you again".


he keeps telling you what he needs to be in a relationship with you.. and you keep ignoring him.

you should expect him to leave you for good. After all, he is communicating his needs to you, and you are choosing not to meet them.
You keep choosing to NOT be a strong woman with principles.