Well I broke some DB'ing rule tonight, but then i'm no longer trying to DB anymore so I guess it dont count...Anyway, I had to find out if W has in fact moved in with OM. I did this because it effects how I will handle this sitch with selling my home. She has moved in & that puts a different angle on things. I was going to sell this house & we would split the equity. That of course will still happen in time but I will not help it to happen. I now feel like W & OM are trying to stich me up.
It is true that there are outstanding debts to be paid, but the money that I offerd her would have sorted that out & I would still have an home to live in.
Through out all this mess I have been very carm, friendly & polite...I was going to file because it's what she wanted & I was going to sell this house for the same reasons I was also going to accept what ever reasons if she filed against me..Now, why should I? I'm going to tell her that If she can do this to me & see me with no home then I'm staying here until the court forces sale during the divorce. The divorce is not happening anytime soon because I won't file & she has no grounds to file agaist me...She is looking at 5 long years of seperation, then she can file & I have no say in that at all...
