We just agreed to a separation agreement (sealed with a b'call)- and the long and the short of it is that we are both allowed to date whomever we choose, if we want. However, sexual contact (as defined by anything happening below the belt-either to or from us) is strongly discouraged and the other spouse is to be notified immediately if anything like that happens. It is also understood that if any sexual contact occurs and we get back together, STD tests will be performed.
I let him know that there will be no late night b'calls and that once the door shuts and he moves out, he will have a whole different set of things to do in order to get me back. Including, but not limited to, a more formal courtship. AND, that I will not be part of a harem because I AM his wife and I deserve better than that.
He, himself, said that he keeps wondering what the he11 he is doing. But, he feels like he just has to do it. This is the most I have seen him actually verbally doubt his decision.
OH! and he invited me out to dinner and movie tonight.
Last edited by Agent99; 08/03/0712:22 AM.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
