It is nice to have a place that I can talk to others in a similar situation. I have been married before , but an A is a first for me and I am struggling with how to handle it all. Each day it is getting easier to handle and now having a place to vent my anger and frustration will be even more help. I cannot help but feel angry, but do not want to use that anger to make our situation worse. The fact that we are communicating more is reassuring to me also. We have started therapy...did not like the first one we went to she is kinda reserved and did not feel she was very helpful, but we are scheduling a new appointment with a new therapist. Hope this one works out. the exercise advice for venting my anger is a great idea...need the exercise anyway. I have gottne out of that habit...guess now would be a great time to get back into it...also a good time to think by myself. I am open to any suggestions....this is just so hard. ReeceGirl
M 35 H 44 D 21,D 18,D 17, D 15, D 13, D 11, D 10, S 9 BOMB DROPPED 7/16/07 STILL TOGETHER, TRYING TO WORK IT OUT H ENDED A WITH Ow 7/15/07