We are seperated and he filed last week

[BeingMe]

You don't beg, you just do! Your home is your daughter's home too. What do they have to say about being taken away from there? Or, did you leave them behind?

As for the 180 ... good for you in trying! But, you don't need to allow your H to goad you into an argument if you don't want to. If he starts yelling, calmly tell him that you will not argue with him, and walk away. If he sends you nasty email, don't respond. It's all a matter of choice - you choose and control your own behaviour. It's a lesson I had to learn in my own life, so I know how you feel, and how difficult it is to change.

Take care.