yeah, he said when/if he takes the job, he'll fill the forms out with me as spouse. which I am, but not sure wtf he is thinking lately. I just didn't know how he was presenting things. although I can't imagine he's going around telling them that he's separated, etc, etc, I think he's too private a person for that. still, I don't know what goes on with him anymore. so much is different about him and such.

what is weird is that he acted like I was being weird for even asking. its funny the lines he draws. like, he took the kids to get them haircuts a few weeks ago. he would love to buzz the boys, but knows I like it a little longer. I mentioned that i was surprised he didn't buzz them, and he said he would NEVER do that because he knew it would upset me. lol. even he had laugh at the things he thinks are important (trust, me, I almost lost it I was laughing so hard, it was absurd, after all he has done, to think HAIR was the sticking point for him).


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher