his poor mom... Let me guess she was/is a very giving and compassionate woman?
Yes, she is an amazing woman. I hate to lose her as my MIL. She has been there for me throughout all of this...she's the main reason that I held on so long. My H told his family early on about this, so I was able to go to her without letting the cat out of the bag. Unlike some of my other ILs, she is standing behind her morals and will not accept her son's immoral behavior...it is wrong, she always says...I just can't be a part of this.
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That combined with the fact that your H had 10 older siblings he pretty much got everything he wanted handed to him? Is he really just reverting back to his adolescents ways?
Yes, he has always got everything handed to him...always got his way. His mom takes the blame for some of this because she said she always let him by with too much...but after 10 kids who can blame her. He is a grown man and he knows right from wrong...no excuse. His brother and sisters just want to tell him...GROW UP!
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BTW, how insensitive of you to not let him have OW and you at the same time. Has he asked you to move in with them yet?(I hope my sarcasm comes across..) Knowing what he did is wrong and not getting his way it is no wonder why he is miserable.
Yeah, he might as well throw a temper tantrum. He can't have a mistress and a wife...it's just not fair. Are you starting to see why he is miserable? He always says...who are you to tell me that I am unhappy...I'm happy dammit. Yeah, if you have to try and prove you are happy...you aren't. Same goes for if you have to tell people that you are unhappy...you aren't. He ain't kidding me...I know the truth.
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Damn he is smooth. If you get a chance can you ask him to give me some oh so smooooooth lines like that....
Never...then you might turn into the jackass that he is. I was such a catch that he snagged me when I was 16 and never let go. OW is 29 and never been married...seems a little too ironic don't you think? She actually told my H...wait until xxxx has to go find someone, then she will appreciate what she had. I can promise you that I will find someone that truly loves me for me and I won't steal him from another woman.
