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This may not make any sense now but you are just ahead of some of us so you will get over it sooner than some of us. I don't know why I think in these time terms, I think it has something to do with going through the trimesters of pregnancy. Even though you may feel alone some of us will be in your shoes in a few months. You are actually doing better than I would expect for myself. Be digified. Sorry, another stupis thought that helps me is that Jennifer Aniston went through all of this but had to do it on the cover of People magazine and she stayed dignified. Again, I am a pretty hormonal chick.


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You are going to behave yourself aren't you. \:\/

Actually what are your plans considering all that is going on, anything from her side of the fence?


Absolutely, I've been behaving myself this whole time (other than the first few days after the bomb).

My plans are to look at reality, look at the facts, and work with her to get the PO removed, plain and simple. We have no chance to contructively move in ANY direction with that in place. And nothing from her side of the fence, I'm pretty much flying blind \:\)

Oh, and 3 days


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1 day \:\)


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2 hours to court


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pray man.

Do ya'll have a property agreement in place? Visitation, child support, etc.?


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Nothing happened, got continued because of court over-booking. 90 days just to have it bumped 3 more weeks. Her lawyer did say they want to meet earlier to go over some things, so who knows what that means...doesn't sound good to me, so more wait and see!

New countdown - 21 days...


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Man I am sorry to hear that! I believe "continuance" is lawyer speak for "I need more money" or "I'm not organized yet".


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Well, it wasn't her lawyer that continued it, it was the court itself. Overbooked and they had a "high-profile" case that went WAY long. SO, no one told me because my lawyer was apparently involved in the big case, and I got to sit in court for two hours with a 10 minute talk with my lawyer thrown in.

So, I get to keep working on things, wish me luck, I really need it at this point! Actually, I need a miracle now. \:\)


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Sending you good thoughts. Hang in there.


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well, still not a thing to report. I don't know what to think anymore, so I don't

10 more days til the hearing *if* it doesn't get bumped again <roll eyes>


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