As for your question, not its not ok. It has nothing to do with your observation, and everything to do with their state of mind.
Every friend and family member right now is looking at me like I'm an idiot. If one more friend says, "Gee, I respect your tenacity, BUT..." I'm goign to fu#$# hit them.
But who is the DB'ing for? It's for me. One to regain some dignity in front of my S. Two, I know I did all I could. Sometimes the time has passed, but the person needs to finish their task to get their mind in check.
