The person you describe sounds like she could also fit the "cookie cutter" mold. Everyone has different tactics, some create drama of one level or another, some avoid drama to be the people pleasing martyr, others just fight all the time, but in the end it is all to accomplish the same thing, and that is to remain in their "safe" place, whatever that place may be for each person, to resist the scariness of change, and to protect themselves over all else and often at any cost.
