Hi, catfan. Just looking around - been gone for quite some time. Don't know really how you can do the "Just friends" thing, but I'd love for my H to want to be friends. It is so much better than being nothing, which is basically what I am to him now. If you can dig deep and pull it off, being friends would give you a chance to remind her who you were when she first fell in love with you. Give you a chance to have some fun together, flirt a little. Hope you figure out how to do it. LadyDi