I was met with some cynicism yesterday. After saying some things that made her feel "squeezed" I actually made an appointment for a pedicure for her. I had to call her colleague to find out the salon she goes to where my W almost had a pedi done before and let my W find the appointment card in a stack of dinner dishes. I had actually thought of getting her the appointment a few weeks ago, right before her appointment fell through. Anyway, when she asked me about the card she found, she said she was surprised that I would do it after our conversation in the morning and why did I do it? I thought this showed the lack of trust, as if I was doing it out of guilt as a form of groveling. So, instead of saying I felt guilty and wanted to make up for it, I told her that I knew she wasn't going to make the appointment for herself, and I had time to do it. She looked shocked and then walked towards me and gave me a sincere hug and kiss.
Me 40 W 38 S 4 M 7.75 ILYBNILWY 6/8/07 "do not want to be your W" 6/16/07 DB'ing 6/30/07
1st M 6 yrs; she was my first WAW
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